The moment everyone wakes up, well almost everyone, they think what other’s think of themselves. Who cares? Pleasing someone else is like living other’s life.
A long time ago I swore to myself, that I will never care what others think of me be it my competitors, friends….. and else. And since then I have been happy in that side of life.
The moment you try to please someone else you will forget who you are and what are your goals. You will do almost whatever you can do to please them. It has to stop at some point, and you have to live your own life. And life is too short to try to please someone else and make them happy.
Sometimes it is like trying to catch up with the horizon- which is endless.
And why am I writing this? Because recently and not so long ago I read “The catcher in the rye”. If you haven’t read it, I am not going to tell you to read or not to because that book was so depressing and full of stories that makes you think in a different way. At one point it reminded again not to care what others think of me.